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Advise me after miscarriage

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hello guys it has been six months after you advised me on things to do so as I can conceive safely. After following your advice I was able to conceive but after three weeks after conceiving I started experiencing some weakness in my body I was taken to the health center but unfortunately I happened to miscarry my child.

I just want to get your knowledgeable advice on what could be happening to me. Also I want to know what could be the possible reason for my miscarriage greatly need your advice guys, which would of great help to me because am desperate about this condition.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hello@ Irene.
I am sorry about your cases Irene just want you to know that you are not the first one to experience that condition. Would like just to tell you to forget your current situation and move on with your life. God has great plans for you and would never leave in any bad situation.

posted 6 years 7 months ago
Sorry to hear that Sad Face

I had my first MC last summer. The main contributory factor in my case was stress. I was so emotionally unstable and always would think of the negative side of my pregnancy. I think it could be in your case as well. If you are stressed for any reason at all, please don't. This can lead to so many complications let alone infertility be the one at the moment.

posted 6 years 7 months ago
Hi Pals,
Thank you so much for your pieces of advice. Many of you have suggested that stress could have contributed to my miscarriage. I tend to agree with you because it is true that I was under immense pressure and worry. Perhaps let me open up and explain why I was stressed up. You see I love my husband so much, but his behavior is worry some. Of late he has developed a habit of spend out at the slightest opportunity available. In most of the cases, he calls me at night to inform me that he would not be at home until the next day. He always says that he has been assigned an important task out of town and so he cannot make it home. In one of the cases, he called to tell me that he had been sent to work in one of the towns in our country which is 400 km away. He travels by bus, and so I expected that he would take three days away. However, I was shocked when he came home the next day at 5 pm. ordinarily, one would take a whole day traveling to the town and another day coming back. So assuming that he had been assigned a task, he would take 6 or so hours to complete it. I carried out some little research which revealed that he did not travel anywhere. My conclusion regarding the entire fiasco was that the man was cheating on me. I became worried, and I think it stressed me. It must have led to the miscarriage.

posted 6 years 7 months ago
I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I had multiple MCs. It was really hard to go through such pain. I know how you feel. It makes me sad that your husband behaves in such a way. I know it's hard but try not to jump into conclusions so fast. Though he's acting shady and whole situation seems weird but give him a chance to explain. I think you need to talk. Your miscarriage is hard for him for sure. I think he is also going through stress and sadness. Maybe he has his own reasons to be somewhere else but not at home with you. I think in this situation your husband has to support you and be with you but we are all different and we cope differently. I hope conversation will help both of you to understand each other and find some ways out of this situation.

posted 5 years 7 months ago
So sorry you have to go through this. I know how bad you feel. I've been through the same situation last week. I had IVF last month. But I lost my baby… It’s so painful!!! It hurts so much. Just don’t hold yourself from crying. Scream if you want to. My best friend is with me on the whole ordeal. Of course DH is a great help too. This is something that you don't wish anybody to deal with… Even to your enemy… It hurts to hear that you are going through this too… Be brave and I hope time and support will help you to overcome the pain.

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