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Advise me after miscarriage

Irene5Irene5
posted 1 year 2 weeks ago
Hello guys it has been six months after you advised me on things to do so as I can conceive safely. After following your advice I was able to conceive but after three weeks after conceiving I started experiencing some weakness in my body I was taken to the health center but unfortunately I happened to miscarry my child.


I just want to get your knowledgeable advice on what could be happening to me. Also I want to know what could be the possible reason for my miscarriage greatly need your advice guys, which would of great help to me because am desperate about this condition.


BraxtonBraxton
posted 1 year 2 weeks ago
Hello@ Irene.
I am sorry about your cases Irene just want you to know that you are not the first one to experience that condition. Would like just to tell you to forget your current situation and move on with your life. God has great plans for you and would never leave in any bad situation.

HesterHester
posted 11 months 1 week ago
Hello. I am sorry for your loss. Forums like these can provide a lot of valuable information and insight. Despite that, they can't replace a doctor's counsel. You seem to be having a lot of problems in your journey towards parenthood. I would recommend you visit a specialist. Figure out the underlying problem first.

ChristieChristie
posted 11 months 1 week ago
Hello Irene. I can understand how tough time you are facing. I can feel your pain. The pain of losing the child is much more than not being able to have a child. I would recommend you to visit the doctor. He will assess your condition in a better way. You need to focus on your diet. Let me know what doctor say about your condition. Good luck.

LaverneLaverne
posted 11 months 1 week ago
Miscarriage after a few weeks is not understandable until and unless you consult a specialist. I think you did not look after your diet when you were pregnant or there might be some other problem. Have your tests and then you will know the problem. Tell me if I can help you with anything else. Bye.

MichalinaMichalina
posted 11 months 1 week ago
Sorry to hear that Sad

I had my first MC last summer. The main contributory factor in my case was stress. I was so emotionally unstable and always would think of the negative side of my pregnancy. I think it could be in your case as well. If you are stressed for any reason at all, please don't. This can lead to so many complications let alone infertility be the one at the moment.

Irene5Irene5
posted 11 months 1 week ago
Hi Pals,
Thank you so much for your pieces of advice. Many of you have suggested that stress could have contributed to my miscarriage. I tend to agree with you because it is true that I was under immense pressure and worry. Perhaps let me open up and explain why I was stressed up. You see I love my husband so much, but his behavior is worry some. Of late he has developed a habit of spend out at the slightest opportunity available. In most of the cases, he calls me at night to inform me that he would not be at home until the next day. He always says that he has been assigned an important task out of town and so he cannot make it home. In one of the cases, he called to tell me that he had been sent to work in one of the towns in our country which is 400 km away. He travels by bus, and so I expected that he would take three days away. However, I was shocked when he came home the next day at 5 pm. ordinarily, one would take a whole day traveling to the town and another day coming back. So assuming that he had been assigned a task, he would take 6 or so hours to complete it. I carried out some little research which revealed that he did not travel anywhere. My conclusion regarding the entire fiasco was that the man was cheating on me. I became worried, and I think it stressed me. It must have led to the miscarriage.

nooranoora
posted 11 months 5 days ago
I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I had multiple MCs. It was really hard to go through such pain. I know how you feel. It makes me sad that your husband behaves in such a way. I know it's hard but try not to jump into conclusions so fast. Though he's acting shady and whole situation seems weird but give him a chance to explain. I think you need to talk. Your miscarriage is hard for him for sure. I think he is also going through stress and sadness. Maybe he has his own reasons to be somewhere else but not at home with you. I think in this situation your husband has to support you and be with you but we are all different and we cope differently. I hope conversation will help both of you to understand each other and find some ways out of this situation.

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