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Braxton's Thank You Note

posted 5 months 2 weeks ago
Thank you so much friends for the encouragement you have tirelessly given to me. I had several issues which were causing really had times in my marriage, but I am so glad I have started to witness positive changes. Your advice are really effective.

I talked to my husband about our responsibilities and the need to be around our child last night. Today, I was so surprised that my husband came back home earlier than usual. However, I am still in a dilemma whether to ask him what was really keeping him away for that long earlier on. Please help know if it is the right time to ask him this question.

posted 5 months 2 weeks ago
Hello @ Braxton
I am so glad that whatever you were told on this forum has started working this early. It is now upon you to maintain the same routine at all cost. You are so lucky that your husband is lithe enough in terms of his behaviours. The fact that he gave you an ear shows how much he respects you. You must thank God for this.
Either way, being that lithe in changing his mind might also be a strategy to avoid more challenges in future. May be sometimes later he might change back to the same behaviour or even adopt something worse.
This might not be the right time to ask him such a question. This time he is really trying to recollect himself and so you must give him some time. Let that question be the last thing you will ever think of unless the same behaviour starts cropping up again.
At the moment, just be satisfied and let God do the rest. Therefore, I urge you to let the past be and concentrate on what can add value on your marriage. All you need to do is to ensure that you become prayerful enough.

posted 5 months 2 weeks ago
Hello @ Braxton
Last month I heard a friend of mine complain of a same issue similar to yours. This lady-like case was even worse than yours. What I liked about her is her ability to forget very first. She was the kind of women who let go what is not of more importance and dwelt on what can make life better.
This is the only thing that can heal whatever wounds you are having. Forget all about whatever bad has happened over the past period and focus on the forthcoming bright days, I know you certainly will make it.

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