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Infertility issue

posted 6 years 7 months ago
hey there, don't stress over too much! You are young and you can try for a long while now if there are no complications! And if there are any, there always other medical ways to get through it! Don't stress out, eat healthily and do regular exercise! Having such good habits developed helps out a lot in conceiving. Good luck Smile

posted 6 years 5 months ago
Hello honey! Sometimes this is really hard to have hope. And when you feel like you have some this is really hard to save it for a long time. I was diagnosed with PCOS. Treatment didn't work for us. Now I'm thinking about IVF with using donor eggs. This opportunity just popped out in my life and I'm kind of lost and scared. I understand that this is my chance to have a baby. This is my chance to have everything I've been dreaming about. But everything I can think about is "what if it also doesn't work for us?" When I think about the whole process we will have to face... I don't know… I feel like I'm not ready maybe. I can't explain what is happening inside me. I have so many questions and not so many answers. Maybe if I know more about the procedure it will be easier for me to accept it. I want to stop being so negative and so depressed all the time. I was a completely different person 8 years ago. My long and exhausting TTC turned me into a person I don't want to be. I wish you the best of luck!

posted 6 years 4 months ago
Sorry to hear about your story but I am happy that you are not infertile. However, it is necessary that your husband should undergo some tests to establish whether everything is fine or not. You see there are many causes of infertility in men which we need to consider. For other contributors. I would like to say that men by nature get involved in a lot of activities including sports and games which may cause issues. Hormone disorders, injury to the reproductive anatomy and sexual dysfunction are some of the issues that may cause infertility in men. Even though some of the factors are difficult to treat, most of them can be identified and treated. However, before treatment is commenced, it is necessary that the ailment is diagnosed through rigorous tests. So I think what your husband has done is a step in the right direction. You will have to be patient and wait for the doctor’s results. Once the cause of infertility has been identified he will be put on regimen meant to help correct the problem. Note that it is possible that your husband’s problem could be caused by any of the following: hormonal dysfunctional, Cystic Fibrosis, prostatitis, drugs retrograde Ejaculation, Sickle Cell Anaemia or issues associated with sexually transmitted diseases. Also, systemic issues such as fever, kidney diseases, infection, and metabolic disorders may also cause male infertility. Also, Spermatogenesis which is one of the problems of creating sperm may interfere with sperm production and cause infertility in men. Luckily, most of these problems can be treated and result in restoration of your husband's fertility. So let the doctors establish the cause of your husband’s infertility before we suggest the way forward.

posted 6 years 4 months ago
Dear . If your doctor says that everything is fine but still you both are unable to conceive then perhaps its time to take a second opinion from a fertility specialist. Its vital to know what is the cause. May be the doctor you are consulting is unable to identify . There are several remedial groups that can help you in this regard. Just look in the right direction. Keep us updated. Take care xx

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hello. I hope you are doing fine now. You should keep trying. The one thing that keeps me going every day is hope. Have you tried to do IVF? It works out fine for a huge percentage of people. Take care of your diet too as it plays a vital part in the whole process. I know it is very confusing and heartbreaking when the actual reason behind the problem is not known, even by the doctors. it really pisses me off sometimes, I mean in this modern age of technology there should something to at least tell you the real issues with your body.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hi Mariene! Well come to the form, I am very sorry to hear that you are unable to conceive. I would say don’t lose hope. Hopefully your husband’s tests will come clear. I can understand what you have been going through, as I am also dealing with same issue. I am also married for 10 years now, and TTC from past 9 years with no luck. On top of that few years back due to some sever infection I have got this disease called mitral stenosis. Now I am unable to get pregnant naturally. I am also looking for my options to get pregnant.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
You don't have to worry my friend. I hope you find my post at your good. Don't worry it's all destined. We can't do anything. I am really sorry for your condition dear. May you be happy always dear. You can take care allot of yourself. This is case of some complications with you too together. Actually individually there is no problem but as a combination. You guys have many problems. Don't worry about anything. Just try to take care allot of yourself dear. May you get well soon. Best of luck. Be happy.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
I can imagine how much disturb you are. A woman feels completeness in herself when she becomes a mom. I am really sorry for this situation. I respect your desire. You are suffering from unexplained infertility. My suggestion to you goes for IVF. It will prove best for you. if you see that there is no benefit of it then you can also go for surrogacy. Multiple choices are there. Don’t be upset.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Honey I'm so sorry you faced such tough times. No matter what the result will be, it will help you to move on. It's better to face situation now and know exactly what is wrong(or not) with your health. We've been trying to conceive for 8 years and nothing. I don't want to scare you. I have PCOS. It makes our TTC complicated. Even if you are not able to have a child by your own there are still plenty of options you can use. I can see from your words that you love children very much. You could adopt a child if your TTC gives any results. Also you can use donor eggs or surrogacy. All depends on what your doc will tell about your fertility. I wish you all the best! I hope your dream to become a mother will come true!

posted 6 years 3 months ago
dear Marianne, never lose hope.That is the first and foremost thing to be kept in mind during TTC.I have been trying for last 10 years but never lost hope.I had faith and look now i am going to have a baby through surrogacy.For you, i suggest that you must not waste any more of your time.Go to a fertility clinic.It is better to be safe than sorry.The age matters a lot.And aging does not stop.Much love an support.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hey there Marianne! I am so sorry for what you have been through. Becoming a mother is not that easy. It takes a lot of hard work and strength to become one. Infertility is just the worst thing in any woman's life. I still remember my days of infertility. I was honestly so devastated that I stopped talking to everyone. I was silent all the time. I ignored anyone even if they tried to talk to me. I tried for so many years and still, nothing happened. I just accepted the fact that I will never be able to become a mother now. But when I saw some videos of a clinic on youtube. Their packages and services attracted me so much that I couldn't resist it. So I thought why not one last try? And when I went there for my surrogacy. Trust me, when I left that clinic after my treatment I was holding my little baby boy in my hands. Fertility treatments are just so successful now. Back then, the success rate was only 10-15% and now it's more than 90%.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hey beautiful lady.Don't take any stress.Sometimes good things need time.Just believe in good and positive.You are fine and your husband is fine or not.After getting the result of your husband we clearly know about the real problem.But on the other sometimes, it takes time.Same in my condition we both are the fertile.No issue of infertility but still we cannot conceive the baby for 2 years.Almost I was near to finish all my hopes and stop trying.The miracle is there.I was decided and make promise no more trying after that.We conduct a test last time, and it was clearly positive.I was stunned and surprised.Wawoo and my eyes were stuck to see the test.Finally, we get our test positive.I now just hoping healthy pregnancy.So, keep trying and keep your hopes high.It's your time.Now, it will happen for you.

posted 6 years 2 months ago
Infertility is becoming a widespread issue all over the world. I myself fought for three years against it, until I got surrogacy done under BioTex. Infertility needs to be treated like a disease. There are several remedies related to it. Before you get a treatment it is important to understand that what actually is causing the problem. The causes of infertility vary from person to person. Hence, it is integral that the couple must visit for a professional diagnosis before choosing the right solution for infertility. The most commonly reported causes can be frequent miscarriages and the ovarian infections. Couples who are too stressed due to delayed conceptions are actually gradually moving towards infertility. I would suggest that you should go for a thyroid function test too. It gives a clear picture about several reproductory problems. You haven't mentioned anything about your weight also. Bulky females also find conception difficult. I pray that you get proper treatment. I have come across the information regarding the infertility clinic in Ukraine. It is called BioTex and has served several infertile couples.

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