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I have been facing infertility

posted 6 years 9 months ago
I am Sara and living in an Atlanta with my husband. I have to take several actions to have baby in my life. I would like to share my story here.
When I was in my first year I diagnosed with pcos and thyroid. After the first year I got pregnant and I had one son through it. I had gone through several surgeries and even i failed several time to get second baby in my life.
I had face lot of issues with the first son. I got after the lot of issue and treatments. I never faced this kind of situation and it was so overwhelming. I took a rest for the one year and get back in shape. I was feeling good until we decided to go for second.
I was really shocked when my periods started changing. I was nervous and I appointed the doctor to focus on the issue.
Doctor said it is difficult for me to get pregnant again. It was so shocking moment and I really want to share with the people. I fall apart in tears because I expected a lot.
All the expectation is drain into the whole when I decided to break everything and not trying anymore. After some days my husbands come to me and tell me that we need to try one more time. I want to try to because I believe in the God.
So we are going for several treatments next month and trying some things which can work and I can have second baby in my life.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello Sara, I'm really sorry about your condition. I think you should not give up that easily.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
You shouldn't give up. You have a support from your husband and that is very important. You had a problem the first time and you succeed. If you look deep inside yourself I know you will find more strenght. You and your husband both wish to have another baby. That is a good reason to be persistant.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Don't give up. I understand how you feel. You have been suffering for a long time. I believe you are now thinking that it's worth it. You have a child no metter how hard it was got it. Even though you feel like you cannot take anymore pain and dissapointments, if you succeed for a second time you will forgot how hard it was.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
It's understndably that you are afraid to face with that problems one more time. Visit doctors and start with treatment to understand your problem. Stress is not helping you so try to relax and just try everything. I know you wish a second baby but fear is stoping you. Don't let a fear to control your life.Talk to yor husband and friends. It's a good way to relax. When you talk about your problems they seems to be smaller then they are.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
I have a friend with similar problem. She had a lots of problems to conceive the first time. And more problems to gave birth first child. When she tried to cinceive for a second time no one believed that she will succeed. I am telling you this because she now has a 3 cute sons. Yes, she succeed for a second, then for a third time. Don't give up.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello! I hope everyone is fine. Sofia I have read your post and I feel for you after all the situations you have gone through. Women have to face a lot of problems after they are married. Infertility issue is one of them. I know how bad it feels that one cannot have a baby of their own. I can understand your situation because I am also facing the infertility issue. I was happily married a few years ago and after few months of my marriage I started to face this issue. On getting a proper check I was told that I have a heart disease that i not letting me have a baby. I was really depressed and felt that my life is tearing apart. Then I tried to come out of depression because I knew that I have to deal work it and work on a solution. From that time I have been having treatments and I am not losing hope. I have consulted a few gynecologists who have given me different suggestions. Some of them suggest to go on with the treatment first and if the result is still not positive, then go for other procedures like IVF. Some of them say that go for the other ways of implantation like IVF straight away. I have chosen the treatment method first and then to look for IVF or any such method. I suggest you to take your partner in confidence and discuss all this with him because your partner is the one who will stand with you in this time of difficulties. I hope you get a baby soon. Take care.

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