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posted 6 years 10 months ago
I am Censored tired because of infertility now. It’s been 5 years and I have tried almost everything that helps me to get out of my comfort zone. Everything seems falling apart.
In the last five years, I struggle a lot with infertility and I faced several situations that I can’t describe here. I want to change the people think of me. I and my husband tried many things and went through several cycles but I failed.
Even I realized that I am not able ovulating by myself. I tried many things and we have changed many doctors too. I kept getting old and I believe that there is still chance to get baby in my life. Even sometimes also feel I have to give up.
There are two sides of the brain and there is a lot of difference between the trying and stopped trying the way I think. I really want to change the way people think of me. I am still trying several things and I believe that I have to make it happen.
As the days passing I am losing hope and feeling depressed but I have to meet the experts and want to share a story with them.
I am here to get some support and feel happiness in my life. I believe this community can help me to face with my bad days.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello my dear, it is so sad to know about your situation and I am so sorry to hear about it. It is a good thing that you are sharing your problem and story with us and I hope you will find good solution at this forum. Infertility is always one of the hardest and saddest times of our life. I can understand your situation because I also faced such hard time in my life. I know that you went through very hard and difficult time in your life. I will suggest you know to lose hope and happiness in your life. Giving up is never a good option and it is very important to stay positive and hopeful towards life to get a good solution. I know that you tried several treatment solutions and methods to get pregnant but you are still getting negative results. Life can be very difficult sometimes and it is very important to fight with such issues in a proper way. It is very important to support each other in such conditions and if you are able to take such situations in a positive way, you can find happiness in your life. I know that you are strong woman and you are able to fight with such hard time in your life. If you are unable to conceive then I will suggest you visit any trusted and certified reproduction centre. You can easily get help with other solutions like surrogacy and adoption to get happiness of a baby in your life. There are many couples who got Good help with surrogacy and adoption in case of infertility. I hope you will get help and will be able to get happiness in your life.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello dear! I think you made the right thing that you came here. I have same thoughts on my mind. I'm so tired because of infertility. I know exactly how you feel. I should say this is really hard not to give up and just accept the situation. But when I think that I should accept childless life it makes me even more depressed. It seems like nothing can help and I will always be miserable. I was trying so hard to distract myself but nothing worked. I think about children 24/7. I think about my infertility, about my kidney disease, about my relationship with my husband. Even when I go out with friends or spend time with my family and relatives or watch TV or work I think about that stuff. I know exactly what you're talking about when you say you want to change how people think about you. I'm 47 and I have no children. Everyone around me had already become parents and grandparents. When I meet old friends of course the first question they ask is about children. At such moments I just want to disappear. I understand that this is not important what other people think about us. Everyone should mind their own business. We should always think about ourselves and what we think about our lives. But sometimes I just can't stop analyzing how people think about me. I am so afraid that someone will judge me or discuss me and my childless life behind my back. Recently I met one of my old friends and she was with her kids. Obviously she asked me if I have children. When I told her that I'm thinking about using the services of surrogate mother, she just smiled and told me this is too late. And then she told our common friends about my surrogacy because when I met the other friend she asked me if this is true. To be honest I was shocked. I regret it I told about my surrogacy to someone who means nothing for me and who knows nothing about my life. One part of me understands that people going to judge you no matter what. So we should do everything what we think is right for us. The other part of me feels so vulnerable. This situation made me feel depressed. I don't want people to think about me in a bad way. I feel like I want to justify myself. Why I should feel this way? Those people will never understand how I feel and why I made my choice. Despite of the whole situation I decided to keep going no matter what. Surrogacy seems a very great opportunity for us. I won't let anyone to destroy my happiness.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello and welcome friend at this open online platform. Today we are living in advance digital world. I am feeling happy to see that you are on right path to achieve your target that fulfill your whole life with and less brightness that is dream of every woman to enjoy labor fruit to become complete mother in life. I am so sorry for this difficult situation in your life. I am feeling pity and pain regarding this infertility problem from bottom of my heart. You can easily overcome this infertility problem in advance medical research based treatment available easily. I want to express kind heart thanks to God to provide this golden opportunity in my life to help you on behalf of my personal life experience. We try many effective methods but not succeed. I want to forget those days of my life that are full of happiness and sadness due to infertility problem.
I want to suggest you to follow these powerful tips and tricks that guide you right path to achieve your target. I hope you follow my trips very strictly to convert your dream into reality. You should be very informative to understand your body signal very well. It is very important to have regular period cycle that is directly connected to reproduction system. You should follow powerful yoga and meditation method to overcome this stressful situation in your life. This is medical certified fact that stress and depression are responsible for infertility problem. You should give to healthy lifestyle and diet plan in this life due to less physical activity that create major problem like infertility problem at early stage. You should maintain high hemoglobin level in your blood to create win-win situation that help you to defeat infertility problem.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
hey dear, I am really sorry to know about your situation! Going through this situation is extremely tough and we can just support you and counsel you but the right decision is what you have to take! I made the decision to go for IVF with donor eggs a while ago and now I am a mother of a beautiful one-year-old daughter! I did not expect it but it did happen! You should explore your options too! Have you thought about IVF or adoption? I would suggest consulting your doctor regarding it and getting your scans done if going for IVF! If the scans ain't positive then there is always an option for egg donor! Don't lose hope so soon. All the best

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