Hi Arman,
I am back again to see where you have reached. I remember having spent a few minutes advising you on what you need to do. As I said earlier, your husband may not freely go for tests, because so far studies show that both men and women are affected in the same measure. In fact, the ratio of men and women suffering from infertility is currently at 50:50. Meaning that you all have chances of being infertile. However, since you said that you have gone for tests and they show that you are super fine, you need to convince your hubby to go for examination. This, you may not succeed on your own. However, with the help of your husband’s clansmen, I think he will succumb to pressure and accept to be examined. Now the tricky part of it is that men feel demeaned when it is discovered that they are infertile. I have had cases where some of them have committed suicide. It means that you need to tread carefully here. If I were you I would delegate this tasks to my brother-in-law. Let them talk to their brother and I am sure he will give in. Also, he should be made to understand that some form of infertility can be treated. So what does it mean? That once the doctors have ascertained the nature of infertility that is afflicting him, it’s possible that corrective measures could be taken. This is critical since it could allow you to conceive and give birth.
Hi Arman,
I am back again to see where you have reached. I remember having spent a few minutes advising you on what you need to do. As I said earlier, your husband may not freely go for tests, because so far studies show that both men and women are affected by the same measure. In fact, the ratio of men and women suffering from infertility is currently at 50:50. Meaning that you all have chances of being infertile. However, since you said that you have gone for tests and they show that you are super fine, you need to convince your hubby to go for examination. This, you may not succeed on your own. However, with the help of your husband’s clansmen, I think he will succumb to pressure and accept to be examined. Now the tricky part of it is that men feel demeaned when it is discovered that they are infertile. I have had cases where some of them have committed suicide. It means that you need to tread carefully here. If I were you I would delegate this tasks to my brother-in-law. Let them talk to their brother and I am sure he will give in. Also, he should be made to understand that some form of infertility can be treated. So what does it mean? That once the doctors have ascertained the nature of infertility that is afflicting him, it’s possible that corrective measures could be taken. This is critical since it could allow you to conceive and give birth.
Can't get pregnant
Join JustParents for free to reply