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How can i get out of infertility?

posted 6 years 10 months ago
HI, everyone!

I honestly speaking I have no idea what should I do to get out of it. I mean like I am trying everything to conceive. I met with the doctors and nurses. I shared my story with everyone but I am still not able to get what I really want.

It's been a long time I am trying to conceive. I am feeling frustrated for not getting the baby! I am trying and trying and going through forums to know the information about infertility issue.

I am going for a test in next few days. This test will tell me that I will get pregnant or not. I am not sure what I am looking for! may be some love or support. Even a virtual hug can give me some relief

posted 6 years 10 months ago
Sorry to hear about this. I know how it feels when you want to conceive but fail to do so. If you are getting a failure in conceiving this doesn't mean that you are infertile remember this? I am feeling happy that I can share my own personal experience with you. This is a depressive situation for every woman. I also faced the situation in my life a year back. After so many years of my marriage, all our family members and relative started talking about when we are going to add a new member to our family and were eagerly waiting for the good news. I failed to conceive many times which demoralized and filled my life with depression. I started living along and thinking all the day how to get a permanent solution to this critical problem. First of all, I would like to say that you should not panic about your infiltrate possibility. Infertility problem is found only in rare case of patients having any disease or lack of physical activity.
Positive thinking is the key success in a long run. The second most important thing is you should keep an eye on your periodical cycle that gives clear view and understanding about when you’re ready to conceive. You can calculate all your day in a proper and systematic way. Your period must be regular. It is clear indication that you are healthy and is a good sign that you’re able to conceive a baby in a natural way. You need not to afraid of your being infertile.
The third and most important point I want to mention is a balanced diet. You should keep this in mind and try to solve your problem in an easy and effective way. You should take healthy diet to have all nutritional value and take proper protein and Vitamin diet that is beneficial for you in many ways. I also follow all the rules strictly and within 2 months I got the good news of being pregnant. You have to consume proper iron dose to maintain proper blood level as well. Stay positive and you will find the positive result. i hope it helps you.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Life is such that things happen to us for a reason. Sometimes not really pleasant at all. Some things can never be changed but that does not mean you loose hope. As a matter of fact you should be proud of yourself for being strong. I know that when all has failed there is hope in God. Take some time even as you prepare to go for the check-up to consult with your maker. H e gives us true peace

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello Dear

I read your post and its very disappointed . but you are going through a test in coming days .... just hope for the best , be positive and everything will be fine . At present medical science is full of new advancements. there are various treatments like IVF , surrogacy etc ............. There are endless options ................. so why are you so upset ??? Take a chill pill and all the very best for your test ......... Take Care Smile

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hi Darine, nice to meet and I really appreciate you taking the time for sharing your story with us. I not that sometimes is not something easy to do. I am glad you trust us this much and also let me say once again I completely appreciate you sharing your story. I can relate to some degree, while I haven't been 5 year TTC, so far it had been 3 years and just like you I had been through quite a lot along with my husband. Our conditions are quite similar, I have low ovarian reserve, while it is not as bad as having 0 eggs my quantity of eggs was quite low and it make things really difficult at the moment of trying to get pregnant. Just like you me and my husband went through some treatments which ended in nothing but disappointment. I am glad to hear your story ended with a happy ending. It fill me with hope knowing this cases can be solved. Thank you once again.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
So sorry about your situation. Hope the test will show you the positive result. Anyway, there are still a lot of ways to become a parent without getting pregnant. Unfortunately, I'm infertile, but I have a son. He is 4 years old today. He was born with the help of the surrogate mother. The doctor used my eggs and my husband's sperm to make the embryo transfer. That's why we are biological parents of our son. The genetics of the surrogate mother doesn't influence the baby.
We are incredibly happy that we've found this solution. I've always dreamed to become a mother. But when I found out that I'm infertile my life seemed to be over. Thank God we found out about the surrogacy. It is a real miracle of modern medicine. It helps couples realize their dreams!
Surrogacy is possible even for single men and women. In this case, doctors will use donor eggs or donor sperm. So, even a single person can easily become a parent. I think this is amazing.
The price is high but it is worth paying. I would give all my money to get a baby. Now we are going to go for another kid. Hope it will be a girl. We will do it in the same medical center. It is located in Ukraine, by the way. The doctors there are really great! They take care of every couple.
Even if your test is negative don't give up. You should do everything possible to realize your dream. Use every chance to get pregnant or use the surrogacy. I wish you good luck!

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello dear, thank you for sharing your personal problem and experience with us. I hope you will find a good solution of your problem soon and you will live a happy and beautiful life with your baby. I can really understand your problem and current situation because I also faced such time in my life. It is really bad to feel that you are unable to conceive after so many efforts. When I was facing this problem, I was losing hope and happiness in my life. To get rid of this problem, it is very important to get rid of stress and anxiety. I got Good help to treat my stress and anxiety with meditation. You should always keep positive attitude towards life because positive attitude will help to get happiness and hope in your life. You should wait for right time and you will find that your life is becoming beautiful. You said that you are going for a test to know about your pregnancy situation. You should think positive and you will find good results and good help with test. There are many infertility clinics all over the world where you can find good treatment for infertility problem. With medical treatment, it is also important to give importance to Healthy lifestyle. You should live active and Healthy lifestyle with regular exercise and yoga. Yoga will be really helpful to prepare your body for pregnancy. You should also add some good nutrition to your lifestyle and you should add nutrients to your regular diet to prepare your body for pregnancy. I hope that you will get good news soon and you will find happiness in your life. My blessings are with you that you will be blessed with a beautiful baby soon.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hello and welcome at this reliable platform. It is good idea to share your personal problem to get benefit on behalf of others life experience to defeat this horrible problem in your life. I can understand your physical and mental stage at this infertility situation. They are 20% women who are facing infertility problem all over the world. You can easily overcome this difficult situation by making appropriate planning to defeat infertility demon in your life. I am one of the lucky women who defeat infertility problem with IVF test tube baby treatment that is most popular and reliable treatment to defeat this horrible demon in marriage life. We try many effective methods to conceive naturally but all is vein. It is very important to understand your body signal very well to maintain your body hormones balance with balanced diet and healthy lifestyle. You can easily overcome miscarriage problem with the surrogacy treatment that is capable to provide real value of time and money to enjoy baby gift in appropriate time limit. It is the best idea to skip high risk of death during pregnancy in rare cases with surrogacy treatment. You should consume rich iron food that enhance your immunity with highest quality eggs and hemoglobin level in your blood to conceive easily with high success rate treatment to get maximum benefit to enjoy baby gift like me. It is dream of every woman to have healthy baby gift to become perfect mother in their life. It is very horrible to remember those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to infertility problem. The stress and depression is responsible for infertility problem. You can easily overcome stress in your life with powerful yoga and meditation.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hi! I am very sorry to hear about your problem. I was at the similar situation. Everything I was thinking about is why cannot I stay pragnant. I try everything. I seen so many doctors that I cannot remember how many of them was invoved in my life. I tryed different methods. I was so sad and lonelly. My hope has long gone. My friend told me to relax and not to think about the issue. So I tryed to go on massages and long walks. And I almost give up. But something happened and now I am a mom of very cute and healthy boy. I couldnt believe the doctor when he said to me that I am pregnant. I hope that you will solve your problem. My hope and prays are with you.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Sorry to hear what you are going through. I know how painful it is to walk through the TTC journey. But I think before you go for diagnosis to establish the reason why you are not conceiving, it is important that you try to try to seek answers to the following questions:
Am I suffering from stress? If you have been trying to share this problem and every person you talk to is telling you to relax, then it indicates that you are under some stress. Stress has a toll on your physical and mental ability. You need to calm down and let your body relax to allow it to conceive naturally. Thinking about a child will not help you. In fact, it delays conceiving, and so it will make you suffer even more.
Are having enough sleep? Sleep deprivation puts stress on your body and makes it not to work normally. Women who don’t get enough sleep will feel anxious, and this makes the periods irregular.
Check your weight- if you are overweight, or underweight, it becomes difficult to conceive. If the body is undernourished, it may not ovulate properly, and this may impact on your fertility. So ensure you eat a balanced diet as you TTC

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Sad, sad story. Have you done tests yet? I hope that everything is fine. How are you now? I hope you are better and that you a better news. I pray to God that there is no longer problem with infertility.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hello, my dear friend! I found your post and thinking about you. Have you found out anything new about your problem? Hope you are fine. When there is a problem, there is a sollution too. Keep calm and think positive.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
I see that you posted this post a month ago. I hope that now you are better. Are the test results OK? Either way I wish you good life. I hope your wish to have a baby will come true.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hi, Ssofiawest.
It pleases me to note that you have decided to get a baby. It is a step in the right direction; you are about to enter into fascinating times in your whole life, it can be very exhausting. As a woman, I can tell you, conceiving is harder than it appears. In some cases, it takes many months of intense and focused effort. It probably does not just involve the aspect of having a series of unprotected sex. No. It calls for self-education, rigorous planning, and fundamental lifestyle changes. Your case is not an isolated one. Cheer up.
You have not told us about your age and also the man in your life. Your hubby has a role to play in the TTC process. Most couples TTC find themselves struggling with a lot of stress, anger, disappointment, self-doubt, and boredom. It is a common thing for such couples to withdraw themselves from friends while at the same time losing some charming habits that dotted their relationship before. When TTC, frustration can end up multiplying if at all you waited till late in your life. The biological clock keeps ticking more loudly as the months' pass. Relax and go for your appointment with the doctor, all will be well.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
I'm sorry about your unsuccessful TTC. I've also faced problems with conceiving and I know how you feel now. I understand that this is really hard to move on when nothing works for you. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to fasten the process. But don't be harsh with yourself. Just give yourself some time. We were TTC for 8 years. This process can take even more time. Remember that you have a family which needs you. So don't put your TTC in the center of your life, because it won't let you to enjoy it. Don't give up and keep trying! I wish you all the best, dear!

posted 6 years 8 months ago
If you are looking for support you are in right place. Also if you are looking for advice. Wait for the tet result. Then you will no better. If the test results are not OK, try not to be depressed. There are special clinics that are dealing with infertility. Ivf, surrogacy and many other options. Hope you will defeat your issue.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hello Ssophiawest, I can understand your pain. Stay hopeful and courageous. I am sure you will get positive news regarding your tests. I wish you best of luck. You need not to worry. Just stay cool and calm. I believe in a quote that where there is a will there is a way. So stop worrying and think that everything will be fine soon.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
hey dear, don't lose hope, have faith! No matter what the result comes, there are always ways to get pregnant! If not naturally there are now IVF procedures or egg donations, even surrogacy to have a baby! I got my IVF procedure with donor eggs done, and now I am a mother of one-year-old baby girl! So, Hang in there! You will get through this phase soon. Stay strong dear.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hey, Sofia. Infertility is not a curse dear. Have you tried surrogacy? If you did be there any outcome of it? If you haven’t decided yet please do try surrogacy as it is the best treatment for infertility. I had cancer my doctors removed my ovaries. And I am also infertile like you. But they suggested me surrogacy; I am an aged woman I still can’t conceive. But you can. My fellow patients who were infertile went for surrogacy, and the results were terrific. They are all fertile now, and they all have a baby. You will also get one don’t worry. Just go for the treatment and don’t hesitate. Everything will be just fine, and you will be fertile soon. I hope you get your treatment early. Do share your story with us.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hi everyone! I hope everyone is doing great and I hope that I am also treated as a family here as other women. My friend recommended me this forum as she knows that I am very stressed and want to just spit out every depressing thing in my mind. I cannot do so with my family and friends because I am very upset and shy. I have a heart disease and I cannot become a mother because of this disease. I find myself isolated all the time. I don’t have any hope left in me. It’s like everything has been taken away from me, and I am left with nothing. I hope you people understand my condition. I want to have my own children, and I am not able to do so. One thing that really tears me apart is that I am totally fertile and still not able to bear a baby. Your love and support is needed. Much love!

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