i dont know how annonymous i am on this platform but i need to vent without someone knowing me personally. i am tired of trying to be the good wife, these men dont need pampering. they make you think that you as a wife are desperate to be married and so they leave everything to you. you get children but thats not his care what they eat and they will drink their last coin without a care. i got tired and had to put a stop to this. am more better while single an di hope i will remain single for life. am tired of being in stressiful marriage. it is now 3 weeks and am happy and free. someone shout with mey yeeeeiiii!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!