Not TTC but a question!

Hope you don't mind me posting here!

I cant find my period!!!!????

im on cycle day 46 now (usually 32-34 days)and no sign of period at all, iv done 3 pregnancy tests and all negative, iv not been well lately (cold and conjunctivitus-lovely!!) so i dont know if that is holding it up

I want to go swimming with my daughter but no idea when it will come!!

I can't find my AF this month either hun, I've done a test and it was negative. I posted about this is General and I got advised to take a warm bath and use a hot water bottle.

I think we need to both de-stress LOL!! xxx

LOL awww il have a bath tonight and pamper LOL, its weird aint it!!
Hope you get yours soon (if thats what you want of course LOL)
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Still not appeared but did another test this morning and it's still negative. Much to DH and my relief, we're not planning any more LO's.

Think I could do with a little more pampering hehe !

Hope you've had more luck at finding yours

still nothing! getting a bit worried now so gonna try and get an emergancy app at the docs this afternoon and see if i can get a blood test done, really dont want to be pregnant but if i am then i am, dont help that i have been really broody lately (and im single grr!)
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This happened me last month, i was a week late. I did 2 tests which both came up negative. It finally came a few days later, probably just stress delayed it. When i told my OH I was late he got really excited, and was very disappointed when I did the test. We have an 8mth old daughter so are definitely going to try for a brother/sister in the next few months xo

Aw, good luck to you Fiona!

Well it's two weeks late now for me and another three tests later and still negative but thats good for us. I'm baffled tbh, I've never been this late and not pregnant!!!

How did you get on at the docs mum2kk???

how did you get on mum2kk?

hi ya oooo thanks for asking
I phoned up and said i am 18 days late (19 days today!) and she spoke to the doc and he said it isnt an emergancy and they cant do anything if i have had negative tests as they are accurate! like talking to a brick wall! so i suggested a blood test and she said it isnt necessary! ffs they will be the first to moan if i need an abortion!! (i dont think i would be able to do that but they dont know that!!)
So now its...

* Your last period was 53 days ago on March 11, 2007
* Your next period predicted to be on or about April 14, 2007.
* Since it's now May 03, 2007, you may be 19 days late.

great! im hoping its just me being worried or something, iv looked up phantom pregnancy and think it might be that as i have some symptoms...its probably all in my head though!!
Thanks for thinking of me xx

oh duh...forgot to say i have an appointment on wednesday...grr ages away!! LOL and another negative test yesterday too!
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You are probably stressing yourself out hun thats why your period is not coming.

I don't think you are having a phantom pregnancy, you have looked it up and women that have a phantom pregnancy believe they are pregnant whatever they are told and you have doubt in your mind.

I've still not had mine either but I know deep down there is no chance I am as it took 11 months to conceive our second so what is the chance one slip up could have caused me to become pregnant and I can't see 4 tests getting it wrong either (not only that its cost me a fortune in tests!)

I've decided if I don't come on when my next period is due (which is 2 weeks) I will go to the doctors and make sure everything is ok health wise.

Good luck at the docs on Wednesday and keep us posted

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Thanks hun, it is probably just stress LOL, i have one preg test left so gonna use that next week before docs app, thinking of going on the pill or something, although i dont have sex very often PMSL i might just not have sex again LMAO!

Good luck hun
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Yay AF came this morning!! thank god for that LOL
Thanks everyone
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Yay

Mine still hasn't appeared so I'm now guessing I'm not having one this month as I'm 18 days late, I'll be expecting it to appear in 10 days!!

aww hope it comes soon for you! Iv just been to the doctor about contraception, im not trusting these condoms LOL
Good luck hun
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LOL I'm thinking of getting the injection. My DH was all yeah I'm getting the snip but he's petrified of needles and now it's getting to the point where it looks like he's backing out!

Not only that the injection is free and condoms cost a flipin fortune, not to mention a bit of a mood killer!!