i am sooo upset with school UPDATE SS BEEN

they have phoned social services on me saying they are concerned for dominics welfare

they say he is hungry all the time and doesnt get fed (he tells me school doesnt feed him)

they say he was left alone in the playground the other day i was 5 mins behind him i would never leave my baby alone

i am so upset and hurt

the nest thing is shannon and bailey go to the same school and they havent had any concerns about him and lewis has had none from nursery so they basically saying i dont look after 1 of my children

i hate that teacher i knew we were gonna clash one day ever since dominic started school

argghhhh

i wanna cry

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I can understand why you are upset.

Have Social work visited you yet? I would have thought that the cl;ass teacher (or the Head) would have spoken to you first- I know I would have.

no they havent been yet and no she didnt say anything till after she called them

she said earlier i have called social services cos i am concerned about dominic and that was it so now i am worried to death about whats is gonna happen and everything

i am glad he only has 2 weeks left in her class

but this is from the woman who didnt inform me when he fell and bashed in all his face and head and they left him and never called ma at all or sent a accident letter home with him

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I would think they would come have a chat with you and see the kids, be honest with them about the teacher ( a bump on the head should NOT be ignored and parents should be informed) and mention that there are no concerns about the other kids. Maybe Dominic is having a growth sprut, Joseph etas like a horse and still complains he is hungry when he is growing.

thanks for ur advice hunni

my cousin has gone mad she says not to wory as i am a good mum and look after my kids and stuff so i am trying to keep posative but i just keep bursting into tears all the time i just feel like s**t now

again thanks babe

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im sorry that this teacher did this, be brave and give the social services all the answers that they need and they will see that you are a good mum.

the school should send a bump on the head letter when ever a heaad injury is sustained at school or if serious then they should call you to collecthim.

I would mention this to the SS, and if you were on your way to the school when he was left unattended then the school needs to address that as they should have some one in the playground to check that parents are there to collect their little ones.

You cant be in 2 places at once and ive been late on more that one occassion sometimes they cant be avoided.

I hope that it will come to nothing and the school holidays are fun for you and the kids

thanks hunni

i am still so scared i keep imagining they are going to take my baby away from me and if i neglected him then he wouldnt have half of adams and toys r us and elc and things would he and he wouldnt have a huge party planned for his bday in the holidays

i have seriously been thinking about moving him from the school he is at to another down the road but y should i

i am just really so scared

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you know that youve done notning wrong and they have to orive it 1st they will not take your child. dont worry

I hope things work out for all of you bunnigirl

thanks hunni

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Sounds like the teacher's a busy body to me hun.

I had a HV stand infront of 3 other mothers dressing me down over George's weight. She might as well have just come right out with it that she thought I was neglecting him! I was practically in tears by the time she'd finished. She tried to make out I was rough with him when I gt him undressed to be weighed too

The social Services will see you are a good mum hun.

thanks hunni i know they will but i am so scared still and i cant beleieve they incinuated that i neglect one and not the others

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Oh my goodness

How old is Dominic just out of interest?? I'm really not sure what to say bunnigirl! Keep strong and just wanting to offer you huge hugs!

Have you not been to see the school head?

good luck hun you'll have nothing to worry about they will take one look at him and see hes fine big hugs hun

dominic will be 5 in august babe and not been to head as according to the teacher it was the head that told her to do it

and thanks mummy heath everyone keeps saying that and i no it true but just scared

thanks all of u

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If this was happening in school with David, I would be reporting them for neglegence and slander. Just saying

well i have written a letter of complaint about his face that time and i have written a letter to ofstead too i will show them just how much they have hurt me sounds bitchy i no but i dont care now i would take him out of that school but y should i and it will make me look more guilty

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This sounds horrible, I would feel like you if I were in your position, upset and angry. Please be strong and prove to them you've done nothing wrong

I think writing a letter was a great idea, it shows you're not just going to let the make these claims with out you trying to make a point that you are a good parent... I hope it helps hun, let us know how things go

TBH i am disgusted with them!!!!!! GRRRRRR

A colleague of mine took her daughter to the hospital beacause she tried to walk off the sofa and hurt her leg. They sent her and her toddler home syaing her leg was huring as she ahd a virus. Jayne took her baby every other day to the hospital and three weeks later they diagnosed a broken leg!

The paediatrician then called in the social for neglect even though she had taken the poor blummin baby in every day! And it was they who sent her home!!!!!!!!

Try no to worry hun! As the other have said your other children are fine - goodness only knows Georgie eats us out of house and home and is still hungry!!!!! She's skinny and tall too!!

HUGE HUGS!!!!!!