both my fiance and i are medically unfit for work now. He is a qualified electrician and i worked for the MOD. He stopped working to look after his late wife when she became ill, then after she died, his psoriasis which he's had for 40 yrs just went haywire and he was getting infection after infection. He claimed incapacity benefit and income support. Then i moved in and i claimed Disability Living Allowance ( i suffer with joint damage,, compacted spine,depression,psoriasis), which i get the low rate of mobility and care, which is £130 a month. My fiance's just had a medical board and the doc was a complete idiot, he's signed him fit for work! He's appealing as he's not fit for work at all, he's got his psoriasis going mental again. Just cos he can lift a bag of sugar, the doc signed him fit! Anyway, as i claim DLA, i made a new claim for incapacity and income support as well, basically reversing what was happening anyway.
We manage, we dont owe anyone anything, we havent got spare cash floating about but we dont starve, have some fun times out and about occasionally. I've got some savings from my divorce so if we need to, we dip into that a bit but i'm saving that for my daughter and what she will need over the years.