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I am still trying to conceive

melisaadamsmelisaadams
posted 2 months 14 hours ago
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I had a great life before my marriage. I was like normal people and I was enjoying the everything that came in my way. I would like to change the things which give my days back.
I want to share my experience here. It’s been a 4 year to my marriage. My husband and I started out getting pregnant at the first year of the marriage but everything turned around when we realize that I cannot have a baby.
From that day I have tried many things some of them are femera, gonal f ieu and finally we reached at to the IVf. We started losing our hope. It’s been a three year to my marriage but everything is going to fail. I would like to tell people that it is not going too easy when everything is against you. I only know the things which are matter for me.
I have changed the approach to infertility. I want to get a baby and I really want to feel the way I am feeling from last three years. Have you ever faced the situation when you want to give up but you don’t do?
I am in this situation that I wish that nobody face in their life. There are several drugs that I took to get out of my depression but even though I failed and I really want to change the way people think of it. When you don’t pregnant on your first month it means your evaluation process is going right. I feel everything will be alright again.


susy123susy123
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
I am emphatize with you. Good to hear that you didn't lose hope. Don't give up. You will find solution. I am sure you wont let it go till you did. A God be with you.

snjeza1snjeza1
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
You cannot go back in time and return the days when you enjoyed your life. It's normal that you lived your life like that. It has nothing to do with your problems today. Don't think that you did something and cause your problem. It just happened. Stay calm and try again, and again.

snjeza2snjeza2
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
Be brave. I like the last sentence of your post. I am sure you haven't lose hope. And you mustn't. When there is a hope it's easier to wake up in the morning and face the world. It's not easy. It's never easy to face the infertility. Wish you well and wish you suceed.

jana1jana1
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
I pray for you. Pray for some courage and lot of strenght to face the infertility. I believe in you. You go through many problems. Don't let them to defeat you. Keep your head up high. And do your best to deal with issue. Send you all my love and good thoughts.

Lola1Lola1
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
Hello, all. I amazed at your strengthen. 2 years ago, my sister was fighting against infertility. Although all depressing things, she fought infertility day after day. She ate healthy and organic food such as vegetables and fruits. Dark leafy greens have a good effect on increasing fertility. Also, she had chosen meat that is grass fed and organic. So, you have to eat foods with folic acid, iron, calcium, and protein. All of these increases your fertility to have successful IVF. Don’t give up until your dream come out. From my side, all best wishes

priyaangelpriyaangel
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
Hello Melisa, it feels really bad to know about your situation and I hope you will be able to get happiness in your life. It is always a good thing to share your problems and experiences with others so that you can get any good advice. Such forums are good platform where you can share your problems and can good advice with other members. I can understand your situation because I also faced such a hard time in my life. Infertility is very common problem these days and many couples are going through such sad situation in life. I know that it is a dream of every lady to get pregnant and you also want to get such happiness in life. I will suggest not to lose hope and happiness due to it because the light is always there in your life. It is very common to feel the problems of stress, anxiety and depression due to this situation in your life. You should not take any kind of drugs to get out of depression and stress because it will only increase your problem. It is very important to face such issues in a proper way. When I was facing the problem of infertility, I also faced situation of depression and stress. I got Good help with regular yoga and meditation. It is always important to stay positive and hopeful towards life. I got good treatment solution in a certified clinic in Ukraine. In this country, you can easily find many certified and reliable infertility clinics. The treatment solutions like IVF, surrogacy and adoption are always there to find help and happiness in life. My blessings are with you, my dear.

riverajulianriverajulian
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
I would like to share my success story to every woman out there trying to conceive, My husband and I have been trying to have a child since we got married June 2013 and nothing happen so i was online searching for a solution when i come across a comment of a lady talking about Iya Hindi Root and herbs that she use and she got pregnant with it so decided to give a try to Iya Hindi herbal Medicine product for one month and i got a positive result i became pregnant .Our son is now 10 months old and we are so blessed! We thank God everyday for our precious gift.I will definitely recommend Iya hindi native to anyone who is also searching for a solution to Contact him .( hindinative@yahoo.com .whats App number+19145295224.) .Please continue with your good work to make more couples happy.

Time4babyTime4baby
posted 1 month 3 weeks ago
Hello honey! I'm so sorry to hear about your fertility struggles. I know how hard it is for you. I'm sorry you have to go through such thing. My husband and I were TTC for 9 years. I've got pregnant but because of my health condition(glomerulonephritis) I couldn't carry the whole pregnancy and give birth. There is nothing I can do to cure my kidneys to the point when I can carry my baby and have a healthy delivery. During these 9 years there were so many times when I wanted to give up. I even visited specialists who could help me to cope with the situation. Well it helped a bit, but after my loss I was so depressed I wanted to quit trying and live childless life. But I just can't imagine my life without children. I know exactly what you're talking about. Long TTC, my disease and infertility change me completely. Now I'm a different person then I was before. To be honest I don't like a person I became. I used to be very positive, funny. I loved life and I was always trying to find good side in everything. Now I am sad, upset, depressed, stressed and disappointed. I can't even say I live my life. I exist and wait for miracle to come into my life. I think "when I will have a child everything will change" or "I will be happy when I become mother”. Some people tell "find a distraction" or "enjoy every minute, everything is going like it's supposed to be" or "don't concentrate your whole life on infertility and then you will definitely get what you want". I don't think it works that way. At least for me it never worked. I should say now I feel a little bit better. The reason of it is that we found option which may help us to become parents. The idea of surrogacy came to our minds not so long ago. I feel much better knowing that there is a chance for us to have a baby. I'm only at the beginning of my journey. Actually it didn't even start yet. I do my best to find all information we will need in our journey. Did you think about options you can have in your situation? Maybe it's better to have a consultation with your doctor. He will probably advise you something or at least tell you what is the exact reason of your infertility. You will know if you should continue trying for example ivf with your own eggs or maybe you should try donor eggs. Moreover there are still surrogacy and adoption left. I hope you will find the best option which will suit your situation. I wish you best of luck!

dazzyshahudazzyshahu
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
I am so sorry for this difficult situation in your life. I want to pray God to provide sufficient positive energy in your body to face this difficult situation. I am here for you to provide sufficient information to clear your doubts regarding miscarriage problem and conceiving effectively to enjoy a baby gift in your life that fulfill your whole life with happiness that dream of every woman to become perfect mother in life. I also face same situation like you in my life just 2 year ago. Now I am happy and healthy enjoying my marriage life with baby gift. It is your turn to enjoy your life to avoid miscarriage possibility with healthy baby gift. We try many effective methods to avoid miscarriage problem but not succeed. We consult with the popular gynecologist of Ukraine to get permanent solution of miscarriage problem in medical way.
I can understand your physical and mental stage at this time. It is very important to handle this stressful situation with powerful yoga and meditation to make perfect balance in your marriage life. You can easily overcome miscarriage problem to understand your body signal very well. This is a medical certified fact that body hormone imbalance create miscarriage problem. You should choose safe and secure sex during pregnancy to avoid miscarriage possibility. It is very important to start your planning with morning walk and easy exercise that provide proper blood supply to all reproduction system working that is beneficial for you in many ways. You should give preference to proper balanced diet that provides sufficient nutrition to maintain your body and mind in perfect shape to create win-win situation to overcome this miscarriage horrible demon situation in your next pregnancy.

kellyK1kellyK1
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
Hello dear. I am really happy to hear that you didn’t give up and still hoping for the best. Infertility is the main and stressful disease which is found in women. It is the dream of every woman to have the baby and play with it. If you want to start the new phase in life then I would like to suggest you Biotexcom where you can get the excellent and world class treatment in defeating the infertility issues and become the mother of the lovely baby. Now you do not need to lose the hope and keep the mind positive. Keeping the mind into depression is not the solution for you. During this time you need the complete support, love and care of your partner. I can understand your agony and I know what you are going through. After facing the infertility issues, surrogacy is the ultimate and best option for you. You just need to have faith in God and directly contact to Biotexcom in Ukraine that perfectly meet your requirement. Here you can get the high accuracy result and able to get fertile too.
You are living in the advance medical generation where everything is possible and have the great opportunity to make the dream true in realistic life. Without even a single thought you can go with the surrogacy treatment and able to conceive the baby. It is the best and high accuracy result treatment. You can become the mother of the lovely baby after getting the high quality of eggs from the surrogate mother and start the new family by adding the new member in the family. Stay blessed and hope for the best.

lejlalejla
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
You have got a lots of good advices on this forum. It's good that you shared your problem. Think calm what should you do. One of this advices should bring you the soltion. Be persistant what ever you decide.

nooranoora
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
You are not alone hun! I also had hard times when sadness comes to my life and everything I want to do is to stop. I had 3 MCs on early terms. I was broken. I felt like everything was in vain. I thought that I was cursed and I don't deserve to become a mother. I can't hold back my tears when I remember that horrible period of my life. I was stressed and depressed. I wanted to give up and not once. Thanks to my husband and his support we went through this. We decided to turn to surrogacy. Actually our doctor recommended us to do so. Now we are waiting for our baby to be born. I know you want to have a baby now. You don't want to wait and go through all this shit. We've been waiting for this moment for 8 years. I wish you to be strong and patient! I wish you to have successful TTC. Don't you ever give up!

mariannemarianne
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
Yes, there is a lot of great advices. Maybe I would try some of them if I wont succeed for some time. This gave me hope that there is solution if it's not going naturaly. I wish that you are now full of hope. Hope is a great initiator.

snjeza1snjeza1
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
It's true that we are never alone. What ever we are going through ther is someone somewhere who is feeling the same. That's why is good to share your pain to forum like this one. Together we will defeat any issue. Good luck my dear.

snjeza2snjeza2
posted 1 month 2 weeks ago
We are like one big family. Support each other. Not only those who are here for long. We are welcoming new ladies. If you tell your problem to someone it's easier to carry that problems on shoulders.

lejlalejla
posted 1 month 1 week ago
Don’t lose hope. There are some treatments that could help you. It’s not over yet. There is a BioTexCom center in Ukraine. You can go there, they will know how to help you. My friends went there and they are amazed. They solved their problem for a small cost. Don’t give up.

sara222sara222
posted 1 month 1 week ago
I am sad just to read this. Especially because you think that is your fault for this condition. Do not think like that. You can not travel back in time. Only you can do is calm. I recommend you a BioTexCom, clinic in Ukraine. If you visit them I am sure you will make your wish come true. First, contact them. Let them know what is the problem. Good luck to you.

laura123laura123
posted 1 month 1 week ago
Have faith my dear. I will pray for you. Don't let that the problem controls you way of life. Listen to those advices. They are coming from ladies which been suffered a lot. The good thing about this is that they defeted infertility. You can also defeat it. You must be persistant.

adneyadney
posted 1 month 5 days ago
Hello Melisaadams, please do not lose hope. Do not stress yourself. Stressing yourself will not help you to find out the solution. I have been through a lot. I was diagnosed with heart valve disease after my marriage. I discussed my problem over here. Many women suggested me about surrogacy. I have read many positive views about surrogacy. I would recommend you to go for it.

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