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Surrogacy .. excited but worried

sherrymesherryme
posted 3 weeks 6 days ago
I made my mind on surrogacy.. and have some doubts if I made the right choice here? The problem is that's pretty difficult to organize the things here. So I had studied a number of various sites, forums, youtube videos, comments and feedbacks before decided to go into the process abroad. Actually I've chosen the clinic in Ukraine and hope that's the right thing to do. They provide several packages there and I don't know which one would suit me best. We agreed to fly there in two weeks and I'm really excited that our dream may finally come true after all those years of ttcing. But still I'm a bit worried about all that.
Has anyone had similar situation? Any advice would be appreciated


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AmelyAmely
posted 2 weeks 1 day ago
Last edited by Amely 2 weeks 8 hours ago
Hello, darling! My congrats for your decision to apply for surrogacy! It's an important step for achieving happiness. I don't know the reason but I can tell it was hard for you.
I also opted for Ukraine as a destination for surrogacy. My surrogate mother is on her 31th week.
I have already seen her. She is a nice woman and she takes care of herrself and our baby, of course with the help of our clinic.
What packages they suggest?

sherrymesherryme
posted 2 weeks 10 hours ago
Wow.. ! Great to hear from you dear.. and successful experiences like yours makes me less nervous.. Thanks a lot for sharing it here.
Actually I was thinking about the standard package but we are not sure yet.. We'll listen to what the doctor recommends and then decide. I've just collected all the necessary documents from my doctor (medical history, ultrasound check-up and so on). He has wrote a letter stating his medical conclusion on why I can't carry a baby myself .. as I was asked to take such with me.. So, I'm getting ready for the trip now .. looking for the tickets..
What package have you taken BTW?

AmelyAmely
posted 1 week 6 days ago
Good for you!
Don't forget anything!
You know this year Ukraine hosts Eurovision. Too bad you don't have a chance to come on Saturday you could visit it there. i'm sorry that's not what you're coming there for.
Standard package is very good! I chose it too, and also recommend it for you. It has medium price, not too high and you get all the services you need. Have you been told how long it will take to start the process with a surrogate mother?

sherrymesherryme
posted 1 week 6 days ago
Yeah, I've heard about evrovision and would like to be there this week too ..but unfortunately could not make it all with all those documents till this time ..
They told we would have to stay there only for 2 or 3 days. The driver is going to meet us at the airport and take us to the apartment .. Then we'll meet the manager and speak to the doctor. He has to study all the documents and medical histories and continue with extra check-ups and examination if needed. We have to take our final desicion on the type of the contract and sign it. Hope everything will go smooth

AmelyAmely
posted 1 week 2 days ago
I guess you've gone today to Ukraine....wish you a good flight and an easy staying in a new country.
really interested in your updates... What city do you go? Is it Kiev?

sherrymesherryme
posted 1 week 4 hours ago
Yep, you are right .. that's Kiev.. We arrived here yesterday.. and are a bit busy with all the thing we have to go through.. So didn't have much time to write an update here.. But I do like it here so far.. Very pleasant place and everything is going quite well .. Though I still feel slightly nervous from time to time.. Will write everything in detail soon.. Thanks for your good wishes. Hope you are doing well there x

AmelyAmely
posted 6 days 7 hours ago
Of course, I understand you!
I didn't expect you write so fast! But I'm glad you found the time to update us here.
I'm fine. Also planning my coming to Ukraine. This time for the last stage of my journey.
I wish you a nice staying there!
Let me know what contract did you choose, ok?

sherrymesherryme
posted 2 days 4 hours ago
We went for the standard surrogacy package. We liked all the terms and conditions there a lot. They cover all the expenses for food, accommodation and transportation, all our medical examinations if needed and the surrogate's as well.. and assistance in preparing the documents.. and an interpreter throughout the way. The payment that can be done in 5 parts... which is veeery convenient for us. Then we'll have pediatrician visiting us every other day and babysitter four hours a day..That would make us feel relieved after we take the baby to our hotel room and have it full time.. and taking care of it for the first time alone .. Too many nuances to take into consideration here.. but great feeling ..
Hope they'll help your dream come true in the nearest future too

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